To bestfriend or not to bestfriend?
Semalam ke kedai buku Popular @ Ampang Point dengan tujuan membeli sebuah novel Melayu - Untuk Awak Teja Aulia. (not to mention the fact that I had an appointment with Hamzah, who accompanied me for dinner later)Ternampak Dahlia upload gambar buku tu di Facebook. Terbaca sinopsis nya, terus di-Google & pasang niat untuk membeli. I know for a fact that kedai buku Popular tu memang jual a whole load of novel Melayu, and it turned out good - jumpa buku tu selepas pusing 4-5 kali di rak-rak buku sambil handphone di tangan, buka Google page on the book. Nak tengok tajuk, penulis, publisher & whatnots.
Dibawah section Novel Remaja.
Typical story line, I suppose. Perempuan & lelaki berkawan baik sejak kecil, dan tiba-tiba salah seorang jatuh cinta to the other. As the tagline for the book goes -
"Selalunya... kalau lelaki dan perempuan mengaku sahabat baik, salah seorang mesti akan ‘tergelincir’ – terlebih suka!"
The topic yang tak pernah lekang dek mulut manusia dari dulu sampai sekarang. Trying to prove that men & women can be just friends. Try all you want, the result will still be equal. There are friendships yg berbunga, and then there are friendships yg fail. Kalau ikut mat salleh punya style, banyak je yg "platonic".
I don't know why but somehow dari sejak dulu when people are trying to prove this equation, I am kinda hooked by it. Movies, dramas, documentary, books. Semua.
Personally, if I were in their situation, I would want the relationship to blossom. Because it's not easy finding somebody who knows you well, whom you are comfortable with, who has a good relationship with your family, and whom you know will love you no matter what.
Blerghhhhh.. I can be *such* a girl sometimes.
"-_-
2 comments
Write commentsNever can work. Sebab you're actually somewhat attracted to the opposite side to maintain that relationship. 'Platonic' is actually 'waiting for the other party to have the balls and grab the other one by the balls'.
ReplyErr doesn't sound right, but you know what I mean.
Sounds to me like "platonic" relationships are meant for MEN.
ReplyHaha :P